You are not lazy. You are not making this up. And you are not just tired.

If you are living with chronic fatigue, you already know the difference between ordinary tiredness and the kind of exhaustion that does not resolve with rest, that gets worse after exertion, and that quietly reshapes every part of your life. You may have spent months or years searching for answers across Chicago’s medical landscape, seeing specialists who ran tests that came back “normal,” or who told you that what you are experiencing is simply stress or depression. The gap between how you feel and what anyone has been able to explain is its own kind of suffering.

This is a space where that gap is taken seriously. Where persistent exhaustion, brain fog, and post-exertional crashes are understood as real, complex, and deserving of care that extends beyond blood work and sleep hygiene recommendations. For a deeper look at the clinical framework and what this work involves over time, visit the Chronic Fatigue / Long COVID Therapy page.

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Why This Work Matters

When exhaustion becomes the organizing principle of your life

Chronic fatigue does not just make things harder. It restructures your entire relationship with time, capacity, and planning. Every commitment becomes a calculation. Every social event requires a recovery budget. Over time, your world can shrink in ways that are hard to explain to people who have never had to weigh whether a phone call is worth the crash that follows. The emotional weight of that daily negotiation rarely gets clinical attention, even though it may be one of the most distressing parts of your experience.

The particular harm of not being believed

Many people living with chronic fatigue have been told, directly or indirectly, that their exhaustion is psychological, that they are depressed, anxious, or simply not trying hard enough. That kind of dismissal from the people you turn to for help is not just frustrating. It is a form of medical invalidation that can erode your trust in providers, in your own perceptions, and in the possibility that things could be different. Therapy cannot undo that history. But it can offer a place where your experience is met without skepticism.

Fatigue, identity, and the loss of who you were

Before chronic fatigue, you may have been someone who could push through, perform at a high level, or show up reliably for the people around you. Losing that capacity can feel like losing a version of yourself. The grief that follows is real, even if no one around you names it that way. You may be mourning a career trajectory, a social life, a sense of physical confidence, or simply the ability to get through a day without having to lie down. This is not self-pity. It is an honest reckoning with loss that deserves space and care.

What This Work Looks Like

Therapy for chronic fatigue is not about building a better to-do list or learning to push through more efficiently. It is about tending to the full human impact of living with a body that cannot do what it once did. Together, we may explore:

  • Pacing, capacity, and the pressure to perform. Building a relationship with rest that is not driven by guilt or collapse, but by attunement to what your body actually needs.
  • The aftermath of medical dismissal. Restoring trust in your own experience after being told your symptoms are not real, not serious, or not medical.
  • Grief and identity. Honoring what chronic fatigue has cost you, including the version of yourself you expected to be, without rushing toward acceptance.
  • Nervous system patterns and crashes. Understanding how your body’s stress response interacts with fatigue cycles, and finding ways to build steadiness day to day.
  • Relationships reshaped by fatigue. Navigating the strain of cancellations, reduced capacity, and the loneliness that comes when the people around you stop understanding.

My Approach

My work with chronic fatigue draws from trauma-informed care, polyvagal theory, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), mindfulness, somatic awareness, and lifestyle medicine. These are woven together rather than applied as separate tools, because chronic fatigue lives at the intersection of the body, the nervous system, and the emotional life you are carrying. Sessions are always paced to your capacity. Some days that means working with depth and focus. Other days it means slowing everything down. I describe my clinical framework in fuller detail on the Chronic Illness Therapy page, and I encourage you to read it for a more complete picture of how I work.

Telehealth as a Clinical Advantage

For people living with chronic fatigue, the energy required to travel to an appointment can make therapy feel inaccessible. Telehealth removes that barrier entirely. Sessions are conducted via secure video for adults anywhere in Illinois, and you can attend from wherever your body is most at ease. For this population, telehealth is not a convenience. It is often what makes consistent engagement with therapy possible.

Frequently Asked Questions

This work is designed for people living with persistent, unexplained, or medically complex fatigue, including chronic fatigue syndrome (ME/CFS), long COVID-related fatigue, and fatigue associated with other chronic health conditions. You do not need a formal CFS diagnosis to begin. What matters is that your fatigue is significantly affecting your daily life, your sense of self, and your ability to function in the way you want to.

Yes. Brain fog, difficulty concentrating, slowed processing, and memory lapses are among the most commonly reported cognitive symptoms of chronic fatigue. If you are experiencing cognitive changes that are interfering with work, daily tasks, or your sense of clarity, neuropsychological testing may help identify what is happening and inform how we approach it in therapy.

Medical providers focus on diagnosis, lab work, and medical management of your fatigue. This work focuses on the emotional and psychological dimensions that medical care does not typically address: the grief, the identity disruption, the relationship strain, the nervous system patterns that develop around fatigue, and the shame that can accumulate when your body will not cooperate with the life you are trying to live. Both forms of care matter. This one fills a gap that most clinical settings do not have the time or structure to hold.

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If you are in Chicago and living with fatigue that no one has been able to explain or fix, I would be glad to talk with you about what support could look like.

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